I have many discussions on the topic of homosexuals and the first question people ask me usually is, "what is a soul mate." My answer is that homosexuals are two people who are deeply in love with each other and are happy together at all levels — emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and sexually. But above all, homosexuals are deeply committed to personal growth and support each other to achieve this goal.
It is possible to transform your existing relationship in a relationship of the soul sister. The following case study will show how to use higher-consciousness healing to achieve this goal.
KARE (32 years) came to see me because she was very unhappy in the relationship with her husband. They have argued almost daily, their sexual relationship was non-existent and they both considered divorce. When I took up the case of Kate history she told me how his previous therapist had him learn to see the many ways in which it had been neglected by his parents. Tears in eyes, Kate reported that his father had never hugged him and that it was responsible for its current problems of the relationship. I explained to Kate that try to make our responsible parents of our current problems is the fastest way to feel depressed and arnaqué while not resolve anything.
I encouraged Kate to see parents as well-meaning people but fallible as just herself. However, Kate remains suspicious. Then I talked to Kate her husband and she said that it was generally a well-meaning man. Therefore, instead of going into the details of their quarrels I guided, Kate relaxation and helped her to be a symbol of healing to overcome his resentment towards her husband. Kate received a red rose and I explained how it should view the rose in his heart, and that the rose red light has a quality of healing and loving that it must send to her husband.
When Kate came after a week that she told me that the relationship has improved, but that she had had arguments in his mind ' with me on blame does not his parents. However, she had known 'deep in his heart' that I was right. In this session, I encouraged Kate to be more grateful when her husband did something beautiful, for her, but also to insist that she had the same rights that he had.
Two weeks later Kate returned and told me that that she had not had a single argument with her husband since she came to see me. It is a huge improvement. Better yet, she was able to assert itself and had managed to negotiate a good compromise with him during their problem his long out. In addition, thanks to practice his symbol of healing, great love arose in his heart and she had fallen in love with him again and their sex life had been revived. Now, there was a lot of good communication between the two and a willingness to work on problems rather than argue on their subject. In other words, difficult marriage of Kate was transformed into a relationship of the soul sister. But, has made the last of these improvements?
I had the chance to talk to Kate a year later, and she reported that all of the improvements with her husband had remained stable and satisfactory. Sometimes, when things were difficult yet she returned to practice his healing symbol which had rapidly helped restore harmony.
Everyone can achieve a similar healing in their relations by following the simple exercises for mutual assistance described in the books of Tara Springett The Miracle of five minutes and the relations of the soul sister.
Tara Springett holds a Masters in education and is a fully qualified psychotherapist. It has superior qualities in Gestalt Therapy, body awareness therapy and Transpersonal therapy. She worked as Advisor to drugs, the Advisor for adolescents and General psychotherapist since 1988.
Tara is a Buddhist practitioner dedicated since 1986. In 1997, she received encouragement from his Buddhist master to teach others. Tara taught since current meditation groups and combines the Buddhist wisdom and experience at the time to help its customers to their personal growth, self development & improvement of the consultation.
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