Thursday, July 28, 2011

Why men cheat? How to save yourself the humiliation of a spouse cheating (strange but true)

Why so many men cheat? Why men of any age, race, income bracket, and the same education wandering on their wives, girlfriends and significant others? It is the insecurity? Afraid of commitment? Issues of intimacy? Or perhaps there is something hard wired on the biology of a man, which makes it a natural extension of being living of cheating?


Have you never heard Chris old, Rock standing "bit" on the men and loyalty? He says (at least in his comedy routine) that a man is only as faithful as his options. Do you believe that... or like me, you know that there is much more to this?


If all men cheat on their partners?


Absolutely not. According to most of the well... More than 50% of married men will depart at a point in their marriage and has held more than 50% of marriages end because of infidelity, that the number is much higher and in fact probably under-reported.


The reason why most men cheat?


Honestly, some social scientists believe that men are programmed for the variety in nature. Only after "reproductive" envy is satisfied, sexual variety is more powerful drive following.


Now... I will tell you a secret that many men will tell you is crazy, but it is not really:


There are many men who are faithful. And fate has as much to do with fidelity as physical desire. I believe that the greatest cause of infidelity is because most people choose the wrong partners.


For example, I rarely saw "soul sisters" cheat on another. Two people who you KNOW are together... STAY together. (and do not have the desire to obtain an "action" on the side)


I saw it again and again and again... More - happy couples who are desperately in love, are the few lucky remaining in love (and lust) for life. (or lifetimes, according to what you think)


I think that you made your own fate.


You create your own destiny. And... heart and mind, the universe has a plan for you. And this plan does not include the "bread" for a partner who cheats. I truly believe that each of us is given a number of paths to choose... and life, challenged us, scolded and even pushed to choose the right one. Too good number of us, especially the women, choose poorly still... and this leads to a smaller life (and love) that we created to take advantage.


It is to you properly request it... and find and owner! (your happiness is - and soul mate truly deserve!)


 

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